Sunday, July 4, 2010

Communication & Connection

happen to read momo's old posts and i saw this.
So, basically, there are 4 types of personality or leaders in this planet:
A. Dove
B. Owl
C. Peacock
D. Eagle

Okay, I know these animals on the options there seems doesn't make sense of anything but they are. Animals are used to decribes these 4 types of personality.
A. Patient, slow, emphasize on relationship
B. Systematic, perfectionist, emphasize on project
C. Fun, emotional
D. wants to take lead all the time, wants to win, wants to finish a project quickly
momo's answer is peacock - fun and emotional.
i think that this quiz is quite accurate for us.

yesterday i started to close my eyes at 9.30pm on the sofa facing tv.
slept till 11.20pm,i heard mama waking me up.
went up and terbaring on my lovely bed. heeehee
sleeeep sleeep,woke up and feel the room is still dark = means still early.
so i slept again, but at last i really cant sleep anymore, and the room is still dark.
i thought is raining,thinking its 12pm dy.
and when i get down, i looked at the clock.
wosh! its 8.50am. so early!!!! hahaaa. such a long story for my 'wake up in the morning'

aha,then i searched for my phone, and theres a mesej, from momo.
yesterday 10.45pm.
fyi, (i copy yunqi lol)
theres somethg happened btw me and momo.
she used to dislike me last time and recently she decided to tell me frankly.
i felt really sad but then everythg is okay now :)
her message:

i learnt something today from the vibe and i feel like sharing with you.
i learnt about communication and connection in a relationship.
i suddenly realized that what i had been fully accomplish in a friendship relationship is only communication.
i did communicate with you by talking,msn-ing,facebooking,face-to-face chatting, but these are all communication part.
i seldom listen to you, really feel what you feel, listen to your views on something...
all i had been sharing all the time with you are my stuffs.
these are what we call the connection.

gosh...im not a good friend myself!

dont mean to post her thg here but i really like this message.
and this word - vibe, i din know the meaning at 1st, thought its like journal/book.
then i go wordweb - A distinctive emotional aura experienced instinctively
so its purely her thinking or can i say is感触。
i never really know this until she told me,
connection, i think i accomplish this with her,
everytimes we chat, i put my heart and i connect with her,
so when she faced somethg bad, like last time she was so down bcs of many things,
deep down i feel sad too bcs seeing her like this. and i tried all the way to ask her be tough.
by msn/facebook.
and she din really feel it,she din take into my words,and continue to emo there.
i felt angry at one moment. heey but then she finally got out from this pessimism.
i felt so relieved for her.
anyway, momo is suited to explore psychology.
shes still my good friend, for sure.

thanks momo for the inspiration :)
sooo, i had 感触after seeing her mesej

Connection is the only way to maintain the friendship.
Communication never get to preserve it.
and i think the key of friendship is the heart.
whether both parties are having the heart for their friendship.
friendship is seriouslyyy, never easy.
oooh, actually this apply on any relationship
所以,真正的友谊靠不了肤浅的沟通。

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